The other day three new books arrived at our house by international post from the United Kingdom.  It was such a significant event in our day that our toddler figured out how to tell us, later on, that the books had arrived in the mail.  We retrieved the package and marveled again over how they had arrived.  If there ever was a house that doesn’t need another book, it’s ours.  We have book shelves and baskets all over the house. In our family room alone we have three book stations plus a book table.

You could say it’s not a surround sound, multi-media room but it is surround books.

This simple book basket contains delicate three part flip books,  pop up books and larger books.  It’s located on the floor where the children are always digging into it. It’s also located near their potty toilet so that they can sit on the toilet and read.  Don’t worry about hygiene! Not much action happens on said toilet these days, but lots of reading takes place.

All of the board books are kept in this basket on the floor.  It’s located in a line up of three baskets that are used to store toys and books. (The other two baskets have lids on them.) All three baskets are located on the floor by the wall. In the evening, after the children go to bed, the toys and books are tucked away and the adults can feel like they aren’t in a playroom. We purchased the basket for 75% off at the Bay in the days before our children were born.  It’s never been put to better use. Eventually we will pass them along to another family or a local thrift store.  The great thing about board books is that you can wipe them down and clean them up before passing them along.  We use Melaleuca’s Tough and Tender to clean board books.

We keep a third stash of books in this leather container.  It was purchased for 75% off at Sears and has turned out to be a great purchase as it can withstand a lot of use.  It contains early Laura Ingalls Wilder stories, books about numbers and letters and poetry books, for example.  We keep it near two child-size leather armchairs that our toddlers use.

The kitchen table has become a book table during the day and evening, when it is not in use.  We place beautiful books, recent purchases or books we want to feature on this table.   A solar powered owl  presides over the books.  As the children play with stackable In the Night Garden wood puzzles at the window sill, they stop at the table to flip through the books.

We also have a small container of books in their playroom downstairs and a bookshelf with resource books for mum.  Another set of three shelves with hard cover books and other books is used daily.  In our office there is also a shelf that contains early 20th century children’s books.  Eventually the children will also have books in their rooms.

We are fortunate to have friends and family who either give us new books or pass along books that they no longer need.  It also helps if you have a background in Montessori education and a large personal collection of books.  Even if you don’t have this scenario going on, you can set up a book corner with a basket or book shelves and put a rotation of library books inside, along with any books you have purchased.  Your set-up doesn’t have to be worthy of a Pinterest pin! Book Warehouse, grocery store bins, Liquidation Warehouse, garage and church sales and the second hand section on Amazon are great places to find affordable new or almost new books.  At the library you can get books, magazines and even CDs and DVDs for children.  We like to check out Puntamayo and French language music CDs from the main library in downtown Vancouver.

For the early reader set we like fiction and non-fiction books about numbers; letters; animals; how the world functions; flip books; books with textures and sound buttons; flap and sliding component books; pop out books; books about the naturalworld and animal kingdom, the life of children and families; and, poetry and spiritual books. We also like books about cooking, art and books that are written in specific parts of the world.  For example we enjoy books written in British Columbia, the Caribbean, Africa and Japan.  Some of our books don’t have any words at all and some are very old.  For the most part the books have detailed, gorgeous illustrations that are realistic.  A few of them are fantastical – such as Peter Rabbit books - but most are focussed on stories about real life.  Many feature gorgeous illustrations of the natural world. Our favourite illustrators are Beatrix Potter, Jane Dyer and Satomi Ichikawa.

Since we have so many books around, our two year olds are constantly looking at the books, are excited about letters and about reading letters on the page.  This has led to an interest in the computer keyboard as it is full of letters. Here is our two year old girl’s contribution which she snuck in while the computer was left on:

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 bbbbbbnbbbbbbvbbbbbbbbbbvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvbvbgv bgv gbgfvbgfb gbfrvfrgvfvgfgvfvbgfbvff]g=rvtrfgpthtyhuyjuykjujujpujlup[luypjuyjptypjuyyyyyyjpsswqyi

 

A book is the perfect gift in our household and generates a lot of interest and excitement.  Books bring so much joy into our home and we feel blessed to have the opportunity to read books as we do.

How do you have books set up at your home and what kinds of books does your child like to read for his or her age level?

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Aaah – Mary Engelbreit. What’s not to love about her vibrant, sweet illustrations? In recent years you might have come across copies of her “Nursery Tales” and “Mother Goose: 100 Best Loved Verses” publications.  Either book makes for a perfect gift for a young child.  You just might want to purchase a second copy for yourself.

Mary’s work first started garnering attention in the 1990s. Back in the day – when people still sent cards just to say “hello” – you might have received one of Mary’s cards in the mail. She produces thoughtful cards with memorable expressions, eye popping illustrations and matching envelopes. Much of her work is influenced by illustrations from the 1920s, 30s and 40s that featured quotes in borders. Englebreit also credits the inspiration she gets from her “idyllic and wonderful childhood”.

(Image from Mother Goose: 100 Best Loved Verses)

 From the late 1990s to 2009, her funky, eclectic interior designs could be seen in the Home Companion magazine. The magazine reflected Mary’s philosophy that “it’s your house and it should be filled with the things and the colors that make you feel good.”  Sadly the magazine was closed in the summer of 2009 due to a lack of advertising caused by the recession.  At the time Mary wrote about her dream of resurrecting the publication.  “We WILL find a way – this miserable economy can’t last forever. Anyway, even if times are tough, we still need to see magical things, right? We still need to know there are people out there producing fantastic things, creating warm and cozy places to live and providing us with the inspiration we need to keep going, for crying out loud! I mean, I love House Beautiful, but I can’t make one magazine last all month – we need more! We need variety! We need Home Companion!”  Her website still features the many projects related to her work. If you want to bring Mary’s work onto your bookshelves or into your homes, there’s an almost endless array of possibilities.

Mary’s work is a folksy contrast to Martha Stewart and has a healthy dash of sugar and spice that is oh so nice.

Related:

Home Sweet Home:  A Journey Through Mary’s Dream Home

When a Child is Born So is a Grandmother

Mary Engelbreit’s Silly Mother Goose

Mary Engelbreit’s Happy Mother Goose


 Baba Brinkman was born in the West Kootenays – a beautiful and somewhat remote area of British Columbia- and grew up mostly in Vancouver. According to his biography he was raised in the midst of the province’s tree-planting sub-culture, which was founded in the 1970s by his parents and their friends.  Baba planted trees for ten years, from the age of 15-24, and personally sowed over one million seedlings. The views and values of this culture – tribal, environmentally conscious, self-reliant, and pro-active -  all continue to inform his life and art. He writes and produces Lit-Hop music that can be heard on local radio stations and holds a Master of Arts in Medieval and Renaissance English Literature. His research focussed on parallels between hip hop music and literary poetry.  Brinkman is currently touring with his show The Rap Guide to Human Nature.

Brinkman’s song Social Contract is available for download online. In this Lit-Hop song he challenges some of the comfortable places and spaces where you can find Vancouverites and other socially conscious individuals.

The following is an excerpt from the lyrics:

This may sound ridiculous from a kid with hippie parents
But sometimes it’s just hilarious how addicted we are
To the idea that we should never be restricted at all
But if freedom means drivin’ and S.U.V.
And never havin’ to clean up the mess you leave
Then I say we need to be less free
I don’t expect you to agree, but you did listen at least
So now you’re free to take this lesson or leave it
Peace

The full lyrics for the song Social Contract will resonate with many Vancouverites.  When you have a moment, check out Baba’s work online, his songs and The Rap Canterbury Tales, Brinkman’s latest book of hip hop poetry.  You and your children will appreciate his intelligent and informed approach.

Social Contract

You think I haven’t gone through any hardships
‘Cause I was raised in communes instead of projects?
That’s why I’ve always had problems with the opposite sex
‘Cause I was taught never to treat women as objects
And never to treat anything simple as complex
And vice versa, but I can’t remember what I was taught next
See, that’s the problem with hippie kids
They stop listenin’ when you teach ‘em not to listen to hypocrites
But most of us still can’t appreciate the differences
Between civil disobedience and criminal deviance
It’s the difference between fixin’ a system and pimpin’ it
‘Cause corruption ain’t the same as honest work
I try to separate the pigs from police officers
And I can see nuances, ‘cause I was raised by philosophers
But nuance isn’t popular, and neither am I
My whole life I’ve been tryin’ to read between the lines
And I’ve never been penalized for speakin’ my mind
So freedom is mine; I’m a Scorpion
And a Libra combined, with a fist and a peace sign
On either side, and I’m just tryin’ to equalize

Sometimes freedom is violent; it gets derailed
The system fails whenever freedom tips the scales
When a sadistic freak is freed from a prison cell
Or a big business victimizes people with its sales
Some say we need chaos, but when a government falls
Another one pops up; it’s like juggling rubber balls
We don’t need more freedom; we need tougher laws
Electricity should be double the cost
With subsidies involved for those with no money
It’s gonna be pretty hard to keep this show running
If nobody believes there’s any room for change
We need fewer cars and more commuter trains
And new laws to make sure polluters pay
For what they do to our food chains; these are the changes
Institutions can make, if we just use our brains
Instead of TVs and computer games

See, I’m all about change, but I’m not about the counter-culture
Standin’ around with just a frown and a stomach ulcer
Makin’ the occasional ethical purchase
While dismissin’ politics as nothin’ but a nest of serpents
As soon as you’re done talkin’, try runnin’ for office
Try becoming part of something positive
There’s really nothing stopping us; it’s just a problem of optics
In the absence of reason; there’s no illusion of freedom
The illusion is a lack of freedom, and we’re losin’ to these illusions
But we can’t join ‘em; we have to beat ‘em
And just because I’m gettin’ disillusioned with libertarians
Doesn’t make me a disciplinarian
We need different solutions for different areas
From over-fishing the oceans to carbon emission tariffs
From the Arab militiamen to the American Michigan Aryans
We need some significant barriers
This may sound ridiculous from a kid with hippie parents
But sometimes it’s just hilarious how addicted we are
To the idea that we should never be restricted at all
But if freedom means drivin’ an SUV
And never havin’ to clean up the mess you leave
Then I say we need to be less free
I don’t expect you to agree, but you did listen at least
So now you’re free to take this lesson or leave it
Peace

May 2006

Related:

Darwin’s got it going on. (New York Times)

Babasword.com

 

The one thing perhaps worth saying about the disappearance of poetry from public view is that we’re likely losing a way of understanding something about life that we don’t get from other linguistic modes, such as story, discourse or the language of science. (S. Persky reviewing “Vancouver:  A Poem”.)

This week I received a surprise visit from a friend, her husband and child who were visiting for the day from Seattle.  My friend came up to Vancouver in search of a poetry book by British poet Wendy Cope.  If you are going to engender a love of reading in your child, I can’t think of a better way than to make an adventure out of finding a book. 

Do you ever read those articles about a successful woman who empties her handbag in order to reveal the contents to readers?  In one such article I read recently a busy mum who works out of the home revealed that she has taken to reading poetry because she can still maintain her love of literature, yet doesn’t have to worry about losing her way in the plot of a book that she can’t read for long periods of time.

If you happen to live in London, England, depending on where you are, poetry comes to you. Three times a year new poems are posted for the benefit of passengers on the transit system.  The original project was started in 1986 by writer Judith Chernaik. A similar project has appeared on Vancouver buses, where every now and then you will see a poster highlighting the work of new poets.  The archive of poems from the London project and the related books provide an interesting list of accessible poetry by new poets.  On a similar track, the book Poems For the Day One (with a  forward by Wendy Cope) provides a year’s worth of poems for consideration.

Poems aren’t just for English majors and the very young. Children of all ages and adults – like you – can enjoy poetry too.

Obra Inversa set W. H. Auden’s “Stop All the Clocks” to music.

Related:

Vancouver Poetry House

Poems For the Day Two

Best Poems on the Underground

Listen to a selection of poems from the Poems for the Underground project

Random Poem for the Day from the London Poems for the Underground project

The Poetry Society website

The Hutchinson Treasurey of Children’s Poetry

Vancouver:  A Poem

The Classic Treasury of Childhood Wonders: Favorite Adventures, Stories, Poems, and Songs for Making Lasting Memories

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If you go owling
you have to be quiet,
that’s what Pa always says.

I had been waiting to go owling with Pa
for a long, long time.

[...]

When you go owling
you don’t need words
or warm
or anything but hope.
That’s what Pa says.
The kind of hope
that flies
on silent wings
under a shining
Owl Moon.

If you and your children enjoy the sensitive depiction of a child’s discovery of the wilderness in “Owl Moon”, you will also want to check out the related audio and video versions of this story.  When the children listen to this story, they seem to revel in the stillness that is created.

Reproduction of the Owl Moon video on You Tube

Despite mixed reviews, there is a lot of interest in the new Alice in Wonderland movie starring Johnny Depp and Helena Bonham Carter.  The movie should appeal to, and be appropriate for, senior elementary aged children and older. The Alice in Wonderland books deserve repeated scrutiny when you consider that the tales supposedly reference, as one admirer wrote, topics such as set theory, meta-language, Aristotelian logic, topography, game theory, several pre-Socratic logic paradoxes and even quantum physics.

Rated PG for fantasy action/violence involving scary images and situations, and for a smoking caterpillar.
Recommended for ages 9 and up
Run Time: 109 minutes

While I was in the grocery store yesterday I was intrigued by the Tetley tea special edition Alice in Wonderland tins of tea.  I decided that I would  see what fun Alice in Wonderland products I can find.

My conclusion?  Alice in Wonderland items are so appealing and the number of products featuring these images seems to be almost endless!

Alice In Wonderland Playing Cards – Red Back Deck

All Things Alice Small Note Cards

All Things Alice Wire-O Journal

Adventures in Wonderland Dream Journal

Alice in Wonderland Coloring Book (Dover Coloring Books)

The Annotated Alice: The Definitive Edition

Charming Sweet Talking Rose Toy, Large

Mad Tea Party, Alice in Wonderland Art Poster Print by Arthur Rackham, 16×20

Walt Disney’s Alice in Wonderland Honey Lavender Goldie Wallflowers Fragrance Bulbs 2 pk – 0.8 oz each by Slatkin & Co.

Alice In Wonderland Enchantmints Mints Collectible Tin

Paul Cardew Aliece in Wonderland Tea Party Set

Alice in Wonderland at the Tea Party Frame Necklace

OPI Disney’s Alice in Wonderland 2010 Collection Mini Nail Lacquer Pack

Related Articles

Edible Mad Hatter tea party tea cups

Enjoy afternoon tea at the Shangri-la Hotel from 2:30 to 4:40.  Eatdrinklaugh.wordpress.com has a good description of the offerings.

Sew an Alice in Wonderland pillow

Alice in Wonderland cupcake toppers

Welcome to my wonderland door hanger

Alice in Wonderland paper locket craft

Cheshire cat cupcakes

Alice in Wonderland stickers

Throw a Mad Hatter Tea Party

Videos

Alice (Underground) – Avril Lavigne

I love this Gwen Stefani “What you waiting for?” video featuring Alice.  I could watch it over and over and never tire of the Alice in Wonderland imagery.


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I’d give all wealth that years have piled,
The slow result of Life’s decay,
To be once more a little child
For one bright summer-day.”

Lewis Carroll, “Solitude”


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Children Learn What They Live By

Dorothy Law Nolte

If a child lives with criticism

He learns to condemn.

If a child lives with hostility

He learns to fight.

If a child lives with ridicule

He learns to be shy.

If a child lives with jealousy

He learns to feel guilty.

But if a child lives with tolerance

He learns to be patient.

If a child lives with encouragement

He learns self-confidence.

If a child lives with praise

He learns to appreciate.

If a child lives with fairness

He learns justice.

If a child lives with approval

He learns to like himself.

If a child lives with security

He learns to have faith.

If a child lives with acceptance and friendship

He learns to find love in the world.


What are your children learning from their life experience?

To consider:

By Pamela Chan

If your child could rewrite this poem, what would she say?  Does she live with love, hate, anger, compassion, indifference, patience or irritation, for example?

What is she learning from these experiences?

How do our ideals as parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles match the reality of our lived experiences with the children in our lives?

To do:

Vacations are a time for relaxation and renewal. When you return from a holiday, take the time to write down sentences (however few or many) that document what you like about your time together as a family, what you want to change and new approaches that you want to try.  Keep these notes in a safe place and review them a few weeks or months after you are back into your daily routine.

Image: painting by Jessie Wilcox Smith, an American illustrator.

You  may have encountered this poem framed in a bathroom or in some other unexpected place.   Apparently the author/poet Rudyard Kipling felt it was overexposed during his time. It is less popular now and can withstand a good dusting off. Here are some values and ideas that translate across the decades.

Typography: IF by Rudyard Kipling from George O. Horne on Vimeo.

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,

If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;

If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,

Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,

Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,

And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream – and not make dreams your master;

If you can think – and not make thoughts your aim;

If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;

If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,

Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ‘em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;

If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,

And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: ‘Hold on!’

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,

Or walk with Kings – nor lose the common touch,
if neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,

If all men count with you, but none too much;

If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,

Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it,
And – which is more – you’ll be a Man, my son!

To Consider:

As a child did you read this poem and wonder about its meaning?

What does your child think about this poem?

Which thought is your favourite?

Which thought does your child favour?

If you were going to add another sentence – perhaps as a lesson for your child – what would you say?

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