Recently I was advised that a posting on this website was referenced by a blogger in the UK.  The publisher of this UK-based site also happens to be a leading promoter of conductive education in the United Kingdom and wishes to encourage public recognition of conductive education (CE).  When you consider that many people still do not know about conductive education, you would expect that he would be keen to promote the face of CE in the best possible light.

The publisher of conductive-world.info took issue with a posting on BCFamily.ca  implying that “bad” and downright “odd, dog’s breakfast-like” information on this page would be  useless to “unsuspecting parents”.  This begs the question – does he know what type of information a parent seeks?  You might assume that academics and subject pecialists are most in tune with the needs, wants and interests of parents.   Sadly this is not the case.  Canvas the opinions of parents within arms reach and you can reach your own conclusions.

Conductive Education has been available in British Columbia to a  limited degree due to the efforts of some dedicated parents in the province.  A useful documentary about the Peto Institute once shown on CBS is no longer available for viewing, although more videos are appearing on the Internet showing aspects of CE programmes.  As a trained Montessori educator with a background in educational policy research, this parent understands that alternate and lesser known educational programmes can prove to be exciting and extremely beneficial for children. In an effort to find more information about CE options for children with cerebral palsy, this parent went looking to see what information is readily available.

The page in question includes a few select links to websites and resources that helped to provide useful information about conductive education and cerebral palsy in general.   Websites were read, books were purchased and videos were viewed.  It was a useful exercise all round.  The posting is not meant to be an academic piece.  It is not meant to provide any opinions, critiques or advice.  It is, strictly speaking, a jumping off point that might lead parents to more useful information.   The organizations, articles and resources listed therein are mainstream and anything but bad or downright odd.  Perhaps if Mr. Sutton  took more than a few seconds to read the page, as he wrote his late night posting of the day, he would have left it alone and continued on his journey down the internet highway.

…and for the record if a reader of this website is going to refer to this website publisher on his or her site, use of my name (which is easy to determine) or the more generic term “woman” will suffice.  Don’t call me lady.

August 31st. Since publishing this page, the UK-based blogger mentioned above has posted another piece about the original posting.  Considering the basic nature of the original posting, and the substantial websites and organizations listed therin, his need to infer that this posting was “incoherent” is completely unnecessary, to put it politely.  Perhaps it was a slow day on the Internet?

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Pamela Chan (BCFamily.ca)

Training for the new democracy must be from the cradle – through nursery, school and play […] through every activity of our life. [...]  When we change our ideas of the relation of the individual to society, our whole system of education changes.  

Forty years before John F. Kennedy’s famous inaugural speech, Mary Parker Follett wrote that “the question which the state must always be trying to answer is how it can do more for its members at the same time that it is stimulating them to do more for themselves.  No, more than this, doing more for them must take the form of their doing more for themselves.”  (Follett, 1918, p. 237)

Mary Follett is considered to be one of the early leaders in the area of business management, and her influence on the politicians, academics, educators and business people of her day was far reaching. Yet ten years after her death, in 1933, she had been all but forgotten. This was particularly the case in the United States, where her ideas were kept alive in the business classes at Harvard University.  In England a few academics still revered her, and in 1941 Metcalf and Urwick published her papers in a book entitled “Dynamic Administration”.  In the 1950s Mary P. Follett and W. Edwards Deming were the two key influences in the revival of Japanese industry.  An association dedicated to her work exists in Japan to this day.  The interest of the Japanese, with their own cultural context of amae, or mutual relationships, is not surprising.  Follett saw circular behaviour as the basis for an integrated relationship in business.  She believed that control over others brought disastrous results and that it would be better if each worker could influence the other at the same time.  Interest in her work has been increasing recently; however, copies of her original writings are still hard to come by.  As a renewed interest in her work increases, the academic and business worlds are eagerly awaiting the imminent publication of new books about her life and ideas.  

Mary Follett’s influence in the academic and political worlds was strong from the start of her academic career.  Follett was born into an upper middle class Quaker family in Quincy, Massachusetts in 1868.  She had access to the best education available to women in her day and eventually attended university at Radcliffe College, when it was still known as The Harvard Annexe for Women.  There she studied economics, government and philosophy.  Part of her undergraduate experience was also spent in England at Newnham College, Cambridge.  At Newnham she read history, law and political science.  Her father died when she was young, and her mother was ill throughout her undergraduate years.  Due to the efforts required to look after her mother, she graduated summa cum laude from her undergraduate degree at age 30.  Not long after her graduation, she published her thesis as her first book, entitled “The Speaker of the House of Representatives”.  It was well respected at the time by academics and politicians, and received an enthusiastic review from Theodore Roosevelt.  It is still considered to be one of the best written works looking at examples of good practice in Congress.  In 1924 she published her second book entitled “Creative Experience”.

One of Follett’s most important legacies comes from her work as a social worker.  After graduating from college she worked in the Roxbury neighbourhood of Boston. Over the course of a decade she developed the idea of the community center – that schools can be used after hours for recreational and vocational use.  Where schools were not available, community centers were built.  Such an idea is taken for granted now, but it was a revolutionary concept in the early 20th century.  Her experience working in this area taught her a lot about notions of democracy and led her to write more for a wider audience – particularly the business world.  She felt that good practice amongst business people would have a significant impact on other institutions.  Looking at the current widespread influence of business ideas in non-business settings, such as Covey’s “Seven Principles”, it can be seen that her opinion has stood the test of time.

In the Appendix of her first novel, “The New State”, Follett outlines her ideas on education – ideas that are particularly relevant today as the Canadian and American governments and Departments of Education look at introducing renewed interest in citizenship into schools.

Training for the new democracy must be from the cradle – through nursery, school and play […] through every activity of our life.  Citizenship is not to be learned in good government classes or current events courses or lessons in civics.  It is to be acquired only through those modes of living and acting which shall teach us how to grow the social consciousness.  This should be the object of all day school education, of all night school education, of all our supervised recreation, of all our family life, of our club life, of our civic life.  When we change our ideas of the relation of the individual to society, our whole system of education changes. (Follett, 1918, p. 363) 

In these ideas, Follett’s interest in the role of each individual as part of the community can be seen. In regards to schools, Follett would have favoured a communitarian approach to education.  Each stakeholder in the child’s education – the child, parent, teacher, administrators and members of the community – would participate in the life of the school.    In her writings Follett also emphasized the importance of experience. However she felt it was not to be vague experience randomly applied to unrelated enterprises.  In the school environment leaders would be sought out according to what experience the person had in relation to the task at hand.  It would be the job of administrators to have an indepth understanding of the capabilities of staff members.  They would also need to encourage a working environment where staff members could voluntarily step forward and willingly offer their services for leadership roles.

The work environment of the school is replete with diversity. This can be one of the largest challenges for school leaders as they try to develop positive school climate and school culture. Teachers come from different socio-economic and ethnic backgrounds.  They have differing levels, types and amounts of experience.  Some teachers are more progressive, while others are more traditional in their teaching and interpersonal styles.  Some have specific ideological leanings that are reflected in their teaching methods.  They may support the ideas of Howard Gardner, Rudolf Steiner or Maria Montessori.  Some teachers do not support labeling children with conditions such as ADHD, whilst other teachers do.  When personalities, lifestyles and political agendas are added into the mix, the degree of diversity becomes broader.   These factors will have a direct impact on the school climate and culture.  The leadership of the school will have an important role in ensuring that the diversity in background and outlook of the staff members supports the school’s climate and culture in a positive way.  The challenges are great, as many teachers are nervous about the range of diversity they find in schools.  Rather than coping with it, they retreat or build safe areas within which they can operate unchallenged and undisturbed.  Mary Follett acknowledged this reality by advising that we should not let diversity bring out feelings of hostility.  Rather we should look at differences with an optimistic and, as she called it, civilized outlook.  “How interesting this is”, she wrote.  “This idea has evidently a larger content than I realized; if my friend and I can unify this material, we shall separate with a larger idea than either of us had before.” (Follett, 1918, p. 40)

Mary Follett had a lot to say about the role of diversity in society and within groups of people.  She felt that variety was essential.  “Unity, not uniformity, must be our aim”, she wrote.  “We attain unity only through variety.  Differences must be integrated, not annihilated, nor absorbed.”  (Follett, 1918, p.39)  This attitude is in stark contrast to a school workplace where school leaders might weed out teachers who are willing to follow school procedures, yet continually challenging the status quo and presenting alternative solutions.  When teachers with alternate perspectives are kept out of the school, one is left with a teaching staff that can often appear bland in their perspective and levels of motivation.  Or as Follett wrote, groups without variety “die simply of non-nutrition.  The bond created had not within it the variety which the human soul needs for nourishment”.  (Follett, 1918, p. 39.)

In the same passage Follett suggests that we should not ignore differences.  To do so could result in corruption.  Rather we should learn to like diversity and learn the technique of agreeing.  If we dislike differences we will feel divided.  If we learn to embrace diversity as a positive concept, as something that unites us, we shall welcome it.  Follett thought that such a concept had important implications for society.  In a school this can relate, for example, to how decisions are made.  If votes are taken and decisions are based on the concept of majority rules, the true measure of how each staff member thinks cannot be valued. Follett would say that this is a 19th century concept of democracy.  If the results of surveys or informal opinion taking reflect the opinions of the majority, the opinions of the rest of the population will not disappear.  They will remain under the surface, and will contribute to a growth in discontent.  She later wrote that we should “never, if possible, allow an either-or situation to be created. […] That gives us at once a Yes or No question; we will do it or we won’t do it.  That is fatal to the best thinking.  There are almost always more than two alternatives in a situation, and our job is to analyze the situation carefully enough for as many possible to appear.”  (Follett, 1941, pps. 219 – 220)

Mary Follett’s belief in diversity was grounded in her own practice of valuing every interaction she had in life.  Whether she was speaking with a politician, or the clerk at a hotel desk, she made a point of taking the time to listen carefully to that person’s life stories and experiences.  Her personality has been described as leaning towards simple living, yet charismatic and uplifting in outlook. (“Mary Parker Follett”, 1994 – 95) In a school there are many types of jobs being performed.  Non-teaching staff members include custodians, administrators, secretaries, and bus drivers, for example.  Teaching staff members include homeroom/grade level teachers, specialist teachers and special education teachers.  Each of these staff members will bring their own unique perspective to the workplace.  Administrators can benefit from Follett’s attitude by taking the opportunity to seek out conversations and to see each one as an opportunity to hear stories and experiences, the content of which could shed light on what is happening in the school.

During the mid to latter part of the 20th century the focus in North America, and the United States in particular, has been on the individual.  This attitude was in contrast to the focus on groups in communist countries.  As communism has gradually disappeared from many key places on the world’s political scene, there has been a resurgence of interest in the role of the community.  Some North Americans feel that we have gone too far in separating the individual out from the community and neighbourhood where he lives.  Groups, such as people from different faith backgrounds, are suggesting that it is important to not separate matters of faith into the private realm from the public realm. From differing positions related to various faiths and/or secular beliefs, citizens can comment on the processes that take place in the public realm. Follett’s ideas about the individual and society differ from the predominant view of the individual that was held for most of the 20th century, and provide inspiration for the realization of this ideal of a more diverse experience.

Follett’s ideas about cultural diversity are featured prominently in an American home lifestyle magazine published after recent terrorist attacks.  The quote “Unity, not uniformity, must be our aim” is printed under a photograph.  In it five linked hands show different skin tones, and suggest people of different cultural backgrounds coming together.  Appropriate to Mary Follett’s own lifestyle, the magazine is called “Real Simple”.  As Americans look back in time and search for traditional values and ideas at the core of the American ethos, it is not surprising that they would turn to the highly respected, but often undervalued and forgotten ideas of Mary Follett.

Follett uses the idea of diversity to look at integrating diverse opinions and coming up with new and creative solutions, rather than settling on compromises in which everyone loses to some degree.  As a basis for this attitude, she suggests that within the context of a group or workplace one should never be complacent about the ideas that exist.  “Know that another theory, another cause exists, and seek that.  The enhancement of life is not for the comfort-lover.  As soon as you succeed – real success means something arising to overthrow your security. “ (Follett, 1918, p. 38.)  If we can look elsewhere for ideas when a theory has been accepted, it is not much more difficult to search for a common solution when ideas are not cohesive.

Follett felt that collective bargaining was an acceptable temporary solution to resolving conflicts that arise within the workplace.  She acknowledged that to some degree it has helped to protect the basic rights of employees.  In these processes she saw that people had the tendency to defend their own opinion and to be blind to the position of the other side.  She suggested that each side should make an effort to understand the position of the other. All of the facts related to the situation should be made available to all parties involved.  In the case of labour disputes in British Columbia educational institutions, she would want to see that each side had an in-depth understanding of the somewhat different perspectives and priorities of the other side.  Rather than reaching compromises that involved weakening each side’s initial proposal, she believed that each side could work together to build a new and better solution.  The role of the mediator would be important.  Follett recognized that such a process would require much more of the mediator, than is currently found in collective bargaining processes.  She referred to this process as integration and felt that it could only occur when the diverse opinions of each side are confronted.  (Morton & Lindquist, 1997)  Follett wrote about this concept in an article about psychology of concilitation and arbitration.

I have said that integration is the best way of setting controversy, and perhaps that implies that the chief qualification of arbitrator and conciliator should be that he himself be able to find an integration, usually a pretty difficult task.  Probably the main reason why we do not have more integration is that it requires much more thinking on the part of arbitrator or mediator. […] Unless those chiefly instrumental in settling [a] dispute [have] conferred many times with each side separately, it is doubtful whether the final joint conferences [will] be successful.  (Follett, 1941, p. 241)

Follett provided a more comprehensive attitude towards a cooperative process that is increasingly respected as an ideal in current concepts of collective bargaining.  She encouraged continuous co-operation between employer and worker.  Together the employer, management and workers can build an improved work environment.  She pointed to the example of England, in her day, as a country where there were examples of constructive contributions made by labour to the management.  By encouraging this continuous relationship, teachers would not see the aim as simply to avoid strikes and conflict, but rather as an attempt to benefit from all types of knowledge and experience of everyone working in the school.   As details regarding special education are brought to the negotiation table during labour disputes in British Columbia, involved parties would do well to take this long-term notion of cooperation into consideration.  (Follett, 1941, pp. 227 – 228) 

Follett further cautioned that as processes such as arbitration involve taking evidence from both sides into consideration, it does not involve the exchange of ideas between both sides that might lead to modifications and changes on both sides.  She felt that people come to this process with the wrong attitude.  Since the aim is to award one side or the other, or come up with a compromise, people come into the situation looking to support their side’s position.  They are usually not open to the possibility that the other side might have something valuable to say that might shift their own perspective. (Follett, 1941, p. 235)  Most disputes in schools are handled at a local and more intimate level.  Follett’s ideas can encourage administrators to help develop an environment in meetings that encourages an exchange of ideas.

In order to work together towards a creative solution, an understanding of the role of the individual in relation to the group, and requisite sentiments within the group must be developed.  Throughout her writings Follett emphasizes the importance of relationships.    “Evil is non-relation”, she wrote.  “The source of our strength is the central supply.  You might as well break a branch off the tree and expect it to live.  Non-relation is death.”  (Follett, 1918, pps. 62 – 63)  Teachers, in informal discussions about their workplace, often remark that it takes time to build relationships amongst staff members.  The new principal will sit back and observe the new environment.  She will take the time to speak with others in large, medium and small sized groups, and talk with staff members one-on-one.  She will ask questions about why things are done in a specific manner and will elicit suggestions for change.  As this process progresses she is gradually building relationships.

Every school year new teachers start working at a school.  In some schools, such as international schools, the turnover of staff members can be relatively high.  Opportunities to meet not only in large staff groupings, but also in smaller and one-on-one meetings, are important.  If staff members feel that they are simply warm bodies in a meeting listening to people talk at them, the development of relationships will be inhibited.  Social events for the staff members are equally important to encourage the establishment of relationships.  Some employers go so far as to bring their staff on retreats or Outward Bound trips to help foster the strengthening of relationships.

While these activities focus on the whole group, Follett did not neglect the importance of the individual.  She felt that our “separateness, our individual initiative, are the very factors which accomplish our true unity with men”.  (Follett, 1918, pg. 84) She took a hard look at individualism and concluded that it was directly related to the collective experience.  Within the broader context of the group, the individual has the scope to develop her individuality.  (Follett, 1918, p. 73)  Follett believed that this potential was possible through cooperation, and that collective thought and collective will are an important basis for cooperation.  This can only happen if each person takes part in the life of the group.  In meetings and planning sessions at school, if some staff members dominate whilst others watch quietly, full participation is not occurring.  Collective thought does not exist.  As an incentive she later wrote that one should not perceive the interests of the individual as being against the interests of the organization.  “In the long run what is to the advantage of the organization will be to the advantage of the individual.”  (Follett, 1941, p 217)

Follett’s response to the 20th century focus on individuality was to say that “true individualism has been the one thing lacking either in motive or actuality in a so-called individualistic age, but then it has not been an individualistic but a particularistic age.”  (Follett, 1918, pg. 74)  She made a connection between the value of true individualism and its relationship to the group.  This connection helps to validate her emphasis on the seemingly contradictory notions of diversity and the importance of the group.   In order to build empathy amongst people, which is an important outcome and support for relationships, we must live a group life.  She felt this was the solution of national and international problems and anticipated the formation of an organization such as the United Nations.  “True sympathy will come only by creating a community or group of employers and employed.”  (Follett, 1918, pg. 47)  These ideas are particularly relevant to concerns about the development of school climate, involving the teacher as an individual and as a member of medium to large sized groups.

The role of leadership is important in the development of an integrative approach to interaction.  Follett saw the power of leadership as an equivalent to the power of integrating.  The leader does not control the group through domination, but by stimulating what is best in it.  She is remembered for having said “The person who influences me most is not he who does great deeds but he who makes me feel I can do great deeds.  Many people tell me what I ought to do and just how I ought to do it, but few have made me want to do something.”  (Follett, 1918, pp. 229 – 230)  As the collective will to participate develops, a sense of purpose will develop.  This is a natural evolvement within a group that is not elicited through artificial means.  In a school, a leader exemplifying the aforementioned characteristics will help to engender relationship building and an environment where individual employees can contribute their ideas and experiences.  Follett believed that “purpose forms the will at the same time as the will forms the purpose, which finds no separation anywhere in the social process.  We can never think of purpose as something in front that leads us on, as the carrot leads the donkey.  Purpose is never in front of us, it appears at every moment with the appearance of will.” (Follett, 1918, p. 277)  Professional development opportunities should enhance this process rather than being seen as the process that brings about agreement on a sense of purpose.  The development of a sense of purpose is an ongoing, year-round process.

It is often said that a school needs a unifying vision, a purpose that will bring the staff together.  Follet wrote that “confidence will [never] be attained except by making the aims of employers and employees the same.” (Follett, 1941, p. 219)  The leaders within a school need to have the ability to encourage participation and understand how a sense of purpose develops.   Follett argued that it was critical for people to not let their own sense of responsibility be taken over by outside agencies and other people.  This concept has implications in areas such as special education. 

It is all too common for teachers to take the attitude that their aids and outside special education teachers are responsibile for their students.  Follett wrote that “only the active process of participation can shape [one] for the social purpose.” (Follett, 1918, p. 277)  Administrators need to develop modes of communication that can bring people who share a common goal to a shared view of responsibilities and a sense of purpose.  Only then can creative solutions be found for current challenges.  Instances of labour disputes in British Columbia educational institutions and changes to the process of Special Education funding indicate that there are prime opportunities for individual stake holders to create a commonly shared sense of purpose.

Some of Follett’s most notable ideas center on the concept of the neighbourhood. Her outline for the development of neighbourhoods can be transferred to the school community.  These are ideas that encourage diverse groups of people to establish interpersonal connections.  Schools that hold monthly departmental meetings, and provide few opportunities to come together as a community, would do well to consider her five main ideas.

Follett points out that meetings should not be sporadic or occasional, but rather they should be regular.  Group discussions should be part of these regular meetings, however they should not include debates. All too often staff meetings either do not involve any type of communication beyond moving through a tightly controlled meeting agenda.  When communication does occur, it can quickly disintegrate into a debate.  In debating, Follett wrote,  “you do not try to see what ideas of your opponent will enrich your own point of view.  […]  In a discussion you can be flexible […] you can grow as the group grows, but in a debate all this is impossible.  (Follett, 1918, pp. 209 – 210) 

Staff members and other members of the school community should have the opportunity to learn together in lectures and classes, and share experiences whilst doing social activities.  Regular connections amongst people in the school community, and with people outside of this community, should take place.  Through these interactions, relationships and increased mutual understanding will develop.  Out of all of these experiences, members of the school community should develop the ability to take increased responsibility for all aspects of their school, not simply their own individual areas of interest.

Mary Follett’s writings cover a broad range of topics that can be informative for civic leaders, educators, politicians, and active members of neighbourhoods and communities.  It has been said that interest in her work may have died simply because she died.  One of the driving forces behind the success of her ideas was the impact of her charismatic personality.  She had untiring optimism in people and their capabilities, and this attitude can be seen in her work.  Underlying all of her ideas is the premise that if you can believe something is possible, you will succeed.

References

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Follett, M. (1918) The New State. New York: Longmans, Green and Co.

Godfrey, P. (1999, April). Creating a Global Neighborhood:  Mary Parker Follett

Responds to David Korten.  Retrieved November 26th, 2001 from the World Wide Web: http://www.hbg.psu.edu/Faculty/jxr11/99_4_1godfrey.html

Horne, J. (1997) Mary Parker Follett:  Visionary Genius Finds Her Own Time  Retrieved November 26th, 2001 from the World Wide

Web: http://wwww.auntl.org/mary.html

Liebmann, G. (2001).  Six Lost Leaders:  Prophets of Civil Society.  Oxford:  Lexington Books.

Mary Parker Follett: Leadership Thinker Ahead of Her Time.  Leadership Vol. V (2) (1994 – 95, Winter)  Retrieved November 26th, 2001 from the World Wide Web: http://www.spst.edu/Leadership/winter94.htm

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Mary Parker Follett: Prophet of Management

The New State: Group Organization, the Solution of Popular Government

 

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“Why do people think girls can’t do science? Where did this crazy idea ever come from?”.  –Dr. Nancy Hopkins, Massachusetts Institute of Technology

In celebration of Ada Lovelace Day on March 24th, 2010, achievements of women working in science, engineering and technology careers will be celebrated on the Internet. This event has been designed to draw attention to the contributions and innovations of women in these disciplines. To read more on this topic, visit the Ada Lovelace Day website.

At BCfamily.ca we decided to interview women working in these disciplines and ask them about their experiences and how they see the opportunities for other young girls and women. In particular we are interested in the idea that improving opportunities for science education prepares girls for a future career in science, engineering and technology, or for a position that is closely connected with these disciplines such as textile design or environmental studies, for example. Alternatively, science education enables girls to understand the world in which they live in a more informed way even if they do not choose a science, engineering or technology related career.

During the next few weeks come back and visit us here at this page as a group of women in North America and Europe answer our questions regarding their thoughts about science, engineering and technology education and careers.



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It is one thing to have had a chance to go into the sciences and like it or lump it. It is quite another to have gone down the path of no return and never have a shot at a career in the sciences – or any career that requires a science background. While one could always go back to school and start from scratch, for most people this option is somewhat of a non-option.  Regardless of whether one ultimately chooses a career in the sciences, or not, it is always preferable to have the exposure first before doors start to shut.

Girlsgotech.org is a Girl Scouts sponsored site that looks at the issue of girls going into the sciences. The following is an excerpt from their Website:

Today, more than 60% of all jobs require some form of technology skills. According to the National Science Foundation, women currently represent 46% of the total workforce, but only 25% of the technology workforce and 10% of the nation’s top technology jobs.

Despite their success in diverse areas, studies show that many women choose traditionally “female” occupations and research suggests that these decisions take root while girls are in elementary school. Studies show that by age 12, most girls lose interest in these subjects and therefore their chance at many future jobs.

The Girls Go Tech campaign aims to encourage girls to develop an early interest in math, science, and technology and, ultimately, maintain that interest to help ensure a more diverse, dynamic and productive workforce.

In the following advertisement a father misses an opportunity to encourage his daughter’s inquiring mind:

By Pamela Chan

In an Op-Ed piece in the New York Times, David Brooks presents a tight argument for the old adage “practice makes perfect”.

If you cast your mind back to your school days, you will remember the brightest sparks in your class – the math whizzes, the artistic creatives and the sports titans, for example. As you struggled along in your own way you may have wondered how their talents had so greatly surpassed your own.

In my case, by the time I finished high school I had attended 11 schools in Europe, North America and the Middle East, Eastern and South-East Asia. This meant that I had all kinds of educational experiences under my belt, and plenty of knowledge gaps. After switching to yet another new school, I entered my new math class feeling more than a bit confused. As I struggled to keep myself afloat, I cast my eye about and saw that my friends brought strong math and science skills to the table. Were they gifted students? How did they get to be so talented in these disciplines? I soon understood that the schools they had attended placed a strong focus on these areas and on the need to spend time developing the necessary skills.

As I left my student years behind and reflected on my experiences, I realized that the students who were strongest in grade school also spent more time at their craft in consistent learning environments. While there are the gifted types – like my sibling  who could whip up a winning political science essay on the fly – most people have to put in the time to get the results.

This became one of my strongest pieces of advice to every kindergarten student entering full day schooling. “If you don’t understand your school work, sit down with your teacher or parent and spend time trying to understand. Work hard and spend time on homework in an organized fashion.” Every time I see the young children in my life I ask them, “SO – are you working hard?  Are you taking a serious approach to your homework?” “Oh yes,” they assure me, “I am putting in the time.”

A few years ago research came out suggesting that in recent decades parents have spent too much time praising their children for being geniuses. Unfortunately when these students experienced their first major failures, their sense of self – grounded so heavily in their “genuis-ness” – crumbled. The findings suggest that the focus should not be how clever a child is, but rather on how hard they have worked. This is not the same as saying “don’t worry about how they do – just praise their efforts”. These findings helped me to solidify my own focus. My first instinct is to be thrilled when contemplating the results of a young child’s efforts. “Aren’t you clever!”, would be my first natural response. Now I am more apt to say “look how much effort you have put into this painting. It’s lovely. I like how you…..”.

David Brooks article reminds me that there is always a balance between putting in the time and cracking the whip. One hardly wants to jam a child into endless hours of practice if they are not truly passionate about the piano, tennis or an academic discipline. On the other hand adults can help students to organize their time so that they are putting in a sufficient effort in order to build a strong base. A mother I know follows her daughter’s math curriculum closely. She photocopied the index of her mathematics book, ensures that she understand every concept that was taught that week, provides extra questions for each concept covered and reviews all tests results closely. Additionally, if parents perceive that the child does have an interest in an area, they can help to provide consistent and sustained opportunities to pursue these interests. These considerations must be balanced with the realization that a child’s life should not be over programmed. Free time to be bored, stare at the sky, twirl one’s hair, chat with friends and dream is essential. However this does not amount to “scheduling free time”.

In my own life my mother identified at an early stage that I was keen about artistic pursuits. She took up every opportunity she could find to introduce me to a variety of artistic experiences. Wherever we lived in the world, she took me to classes, arts events and introduced me to adults who shared my passion for the arts. Her resourcefulness in this area was impressive and persistent. Watching how she tracks the pursuits of the young children in her life today, I can see that she is continually putting in the time to support the children in her life, who will in turn also will put time into their emerging interests. I know from experience that this is an approach that worked for me and it is exciting to see the next generation pursue their own unique talents in a focused and rewarding way.

Outliers – The Story of Success by Malcolm Gladwell

Outliers can be enjoyed for its bits of trivia, like why most pro hockey players were born in January, how many hours of practice it takes to master a skill, why the descendents of Jewish immigrant garment workers became the most powerful lawyers in New York, how a pilots’ culture impacts their crash record, how a centuries-old culture of rice farming helps Asian kids master math.

“What do Wayne Gretzky, Yo-Yo Ma, and a brain surgeon named Charlie Wilson have in common?”, M. Gladwell, The New Yorker

The Genius Myth: The Danger of Worshipping “Exceptional” Students

Parents and a teacher discuss homework skills

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There are so many wonderful books covering the New Born to Infant years.  Here are a few that we found to be particularly well written and useful.

Tim Seldin is highly praised and respected by his Montessori colleagues in the education field and his book How to Raise an Amazing Child does not disappoint.  For more information about the work of Tim Seldin’s organization see www.montessori.org

Tim Seldin speaks about Montessori education

Sylvana Montenaro’s book Understanding the Human Being focuses on the 0 – 3 age group from a Montessori perspective.  Child’s Play is an activities based book and the book by Clare Healy. Volume 3 focuses on the 0 – 3 age group.

The 90 Minute Sleep Plan presents the five principles of sleep (as described in the following link).  This theory is also presented in the Happiest Baby on the Block book. Thoughts about babies sleep are varied and often contradictory.

The New First Three Years of Life is a good modern version of a Dr. Spock type primer. The stage by stage descriptions of what you can expect are written in an informative yet approachable style.


The Children’s Hospital Guide is an exhaustive presentation of health and development issues related to children.

Here are some locations for information about Montessori schools and the Montessori programme:

Information about Dr Maria Montessori

MONTESSORI IN THE HOME

Bringing Montessori into your home

The Wonder Years – A Montessori home environment

Parenting for independence blog post

Practical life in the home - a good list of undertakings that a child will appreciate

Summer vacation – a practical life approach

Summer reading ideas

Montessori at home: the senses

Montessori prepared environment at home

How to create a prepared environment

MONTESSORI AT HOME WEBLOGS

Lavenderandlimes.blogspot/kids

Montessori for everyone – Montessori home schooling

Moose Huntress – Montessori at home website

Happy Hearts home schooling blog links

Adventures of a rainbow mama

Chasing Cheerios - a homeschooling weblog

INFANT TODDLER YEARS

The Montessori Method for the Infant Toddler (Links and lists of resources for the 0 – 3 years.)

Parenting books for the infant years

Secrets of childhood – infant center

Baby’s Montessori room


The first three years of life

WEBSITES

Montessori videos
on You Tube

Montessori videos on Vimeo

Montessori for infants and toddlers

A general Montessori website

Montessori content on Blogger

Montessori images on Flickr

SUPPLIES

BST Montessori Materials

Montessori Research and development

Nienhaus.com

Comprehensive list of Montessori materials resources

Infant toddler supplies

Little Red Riding Hood: Supplies for infants and toddlers

Montessorimaterials.org

Etsy stores with Montessori tags

Goose Designs on Etsy

Spore: A modern Montessori material

How to make homemade material

Michael Olaf Infant and Primary years supplies

Montessori for everyone supplies

Montessori books on Amazon.com

MONTESSORI TEACHER’S WEBLOGS

Itty bitty love

Montessori on the shelf

Moveable alphabet

Montessori Secrets

By Pamela Chan

The Manjari Sankurathri Memorial Foundation was started as a father’s response to losing his family in the 1985 Air India bombing. The details of this project show how each of us has the potential to effect impressive change in the communities in which we live.

To Consider:

* Can you think of similar responses to a tragedy in your own community?

* Has an event in your family’s lives inspired you and/or your family members to start an initiative? If you are unable to do so in a significant way, what small steps can you take to realize your goal?

A father’s response to the 1985 Air India bombing: The National, March 18, 2005

The Manjari Sankurathri Memorial Foundation

Based on the scientific principles mentioned in this article, Montessori primary school teachers present a new exercise while sitting on the right side of the child in order to take advantage of this aspect of hearing.

To do:

* When reading to your child, consider reading on his or her right hand side.

* As the right ear is critical for learning in school, acquaint yourself with hazards that can damage a child’s hearing.  In particular, educate your child about how loud an Ipod should be played.  Minimize the amount of time, per day, that your child has earphones on.

* Encourage your children to protect their ears at concerts. Educate them about how damage to the ear happens.

Full article re UCLA professor’s research

If you are a parent in British Columbia with a child who has cerebral palsy, you will want to acquaint yourself with information about conductive education. Conductive education provides a means of  support for your child’s progress that augments traditional physiotherapy currently on offer in the province.

Conductive education is available in British Columbia to a limited degree; however, up until 2010 it has been necessary to bring in specialists from other parts of the world.  Information about conductive education has become more readily available during the last ten years and parents of children with cerebral palsy in British Columbia have been working hard to improve the conductive education offerings in our communities.  As of July, 2010, the latest news is that that a conductor will be moving to the Lower Mainland and will be starting her own business.

If you haven’t heard about conductive education, here is a write up by Dr. Mari Hari explaining the principal hypothesis of conductive education.

The primary aims of Conductive Education are:

  • To set up an active life-style.
  • To develop cognitive functions.
  • To provide a complex but unified educational programme.
  • To teach the process of intending.
  • To help disabled children to learn to walk, attend school and go to work. (Of course, not all achieve this!)
  • To provide a programme that in some cases can be built into the framework of special and ordinary schools.

Here are some articles and links on the topic which may provide a starting point to discover more information about conductive education.

Websites

Conductive Education Weblog This creative and informative weblog is written by a UK born conductor who currently lives in Nurnberg. She works with children and also in collaboration with therapists in adult rehabilitation (including stroke survivors.)

Conductive Education in BC A superb weblog by a father of a boy who has cerebral palsy.  He is also very knowledgeable about initiatives in British Columbia and elsewhere. Check out the links to other weblogs and websites posted on his site.

The virtual conductive education library

Articles

“Mind and Muscle:  Peto Institute Brings Hope to Children with Cerebral Palsy

A link to electronic copies of various articles about Conductive Education

Dad’s Discovery Changes his Son’s World

Conductive Education.  A Canadian Future?

Books and Products

Dina: A Mother Practices Conductive Education (Peto System)

Conductive Education ( By Maria Hari)

Other Non-Conductive Education Books (These books provide non-CE perspectives)

Teaching Motor Skills to Children With Cerebral Palsy (Includes a thorough explanation of Cerebral Palsy)

Gross Motor Skills in Children With Down Syndrome (Not related to Cerebral Palsy but contains interesting information about how children develop and a list of skill sets that are a useful reference – even when considering children without Down Syndrome)

Children With Cerebral Palsy: A Parent’s Guide

Organizations

Peto Institute website (click on the English tab above for English information) “The conductive educational program is all embracing and highly complex; it includes everything that characterizes a healthy child’s everyday life from meal times and hygiene to play and learning. The program satisfies all physical, intellectual and social requirements needed for developing an integrated, healthy personality. The concept of conductive education is that gaining information and receiving ethical, emotional and aesthetic education are not separate but highly interrelated processes. The program pays special attention to self-care, voluntary functions and motivation.”

Rainbow Centre for Conductive Education

Scottish Centre for Children With Motor Impairments

The PACE Centre Transforming lives

Rising Star Learning Center (See their related slide show and intro video)

Related

What is Cerebral Palsy

Steps to Independence Class Pittsburgh on Facebook

Audio and Video:

Whoopsadaisy is a UK based charity that provides families with access to conductive education. They have provided the following informative video overview about  conductive education:

The following video shows a child’s first steps at PACE:

More videos from Pace (A selection of over 25 videos showing various aspects of the PACE programme.)

Audio clips of parents and students at the PACE centre

Update:  August, 2010

Conductive Education Revisited (Don’t call me lady.)

Update: October, 2010

We received the following information from Anne, the conductor who has recently moved to British Columbia. If you would like to know more about a Conductive Education programme, please refer to the website indicated below.  Welcome to British Columbia Anne!

I am Anne the conductor, who just recently moved to BC (you mentioned me indirectly in your post about Conductive Education). I am trying right now to get parents and professional to know more about Conductive Education and about available services here in the greater Vancouver Area. It seems to be very hard to get in touch with parents who have a child with Cerebral Palsy or other Movement Disorder. In my search I came across your website and would be thankful if you could post my information on your website. I started a blog and am in the process of building up my website which address is http://www.movingaheadcc.com.

I would be very happy to answer any questions about CE or the programs I am trying to set up.

Looking forward hearing from you

Anne Wittig

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