Pamela Chan, BCFamily.ca

If you’re looking for a community building project that is international in scope CouchSurfing.com must, surely, be it.  Around the world people are connecting via this website to arrange to crash on someone else’s couch (or spare bed).  This is a volunteer venture that has a large following (3 1/2 million profiles) and is a different shift from concepts such as home exchanges that involve having a place to offer in exchange for staying somewhere else.

As a parent of two young children who also has a husband who travels with me, I cannot foresee using this service.  Although it is true that you can search for a place that accommodates four people and is suitable for children.  I also doubt that we would offer a bed since it’s not likely that visitors would want to stay out in the suburbs when they could choose a more central location. Even though I probably won’t use the service, the couch surfing concept did get me thinking about experiences I have had that are similar.

Growing up in a foreign service family, I have many memories of sleeping in all kinds of locations.  These include different types of hotels, B&Bs and friends’ and relatives’ homes.  One of my favourite experiences was when I stayed in pod-like structures in different locations in northern Iraq.  As a young adult I lived in all types of university dorm and shared accommodation set-ups.  I revisited this lifestyle again when I completed grad school in my early 30s.  I also took advantage of the opportunity to travel while I was working for an international organization overseas and in the process visited hotels, hostels and stayed on many a friend’s couch, extra bed or floor. My funniest experience was when I slept on the foyer floor in between my brother and sister-in-law’s piles of wedding gifts the night after their wedding.  (It was a small one bedroom apartment in Vancouver’s west end and I was visiting from overseas.)  The one low point was when a now ex friend and her boyfriend decided that my 22 year old lifestyle and essential being somehow offended all of their left wing senses.  Ironically not only have I never voted for the CPC but I can match this couple’s anti-right wing arguments tit for tat. Needless to say, their hosting skills took a turn for the worse at that point. After I returned to Canada in my early 30s I also had many opportunities to crash on my brother’s extra bed, couch or floor while babysitting or staying overnight in one of a number of homes he owned over the course of five years.  It got to the point that I could drop and sleep just about anywhere.

As a hostess I have always enjoyed having friends and family to stay.  My specialty is trying to create a spa-like setting in the guest bathroom.  (“Try” is the operative word in that sentence.)  My funniest memory was going completely overboard and spending $100 on breakfast supplies when a friend from Europe came to visit me in Japan.  Why I felt I needed to replicate the way they do breakfast in his country, I cannot explain.

There’s something about the concept of crashing out on someone’s couch that seems so old school. After all – can’t we access the latest info on the cheapest 3 star hotel?  Why go for the free option?  In reality, many of us don’t have the cash to travel far and wide.  We aren’t in jobs that send us on business trips and we aren’t racking up air mile points.  Free accommodation isn’t such a bad idea.  As I also know from personal experience, you see a country through a different lens when you stay with someone who lives there.

Even if we don’t travel, it’s also a nice idea to think that you could host people from other countries as well.

On the flip side there are safety concerns related to using this type of service. It is good to know that you can search for someone who has a photo, is verified, vouched and has been reviewed.  Although women do stay with male hosts (see article posted below), it would be more prudent for women to stay with other women if they are traveling alone.

Couch surfing.  It could be a plan.  If not to surf than perhaps to offer a place.

What do you think?  You can comment about this posting using the comment function below or by visiting the BC Family Facebook page. Your opinion matters so don’t be shy!

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Pitt Lake, Pitt Meadows, BC

Canadians will be celebrating long weekends across the country during the first weekend in August. The civic holiday themes include British Columbia Day (BC), Heritage Day (AB), Saskatchewan Day, Simcoe Day (ON), Natal Day (NS and PEI), New Brunswick Day and civic holidays in Manitoba and the Northwest Territories.  In the Yukon a long weekend is celebrated during the third weekend of August.  Newfoundland and Labrador also have a civic holiday that falls on the first Wednesday in August.

Light Speed SPF 50 Tent

British Columbians are often portrayed in the Canadian media as living in affluent circumstances, which is a less than accurate assessment.  Most don’t retreat to a cottage or boat fit for an Eaton’s commercial during a long weekend.  Although many do go online early in the year so that they can book spots at camping grounds for annual meet-ups with family and friends.  A great alternative to a cottage by the lake is a supply of outdoor gear for on-the-go days out and about.   These days pop up sun tents; portable chairs; BBQs; and well designed picnic, water and outdoor game supplies are affordable and convenient. Most portable chairs, sun tents and some picnic gear, such as insulated picnic bags, come with shoulder straps.  You can easily carry a variety of gear around a park, to the beach or on transit.  This makes outdoor fun accessible to everyone.

Here at BCFamily our  favourite outdoor gear pieces are a Light Speed pop-up tent from Costco (less than $40!) and a classic, reversible Rachel Riley picnic blanket made of gingham and toile du jouy fabric.  It’s filled with a wool lining to give it weight.

Add in portable chairs from the Great Canadian Superstore (under $10), a kite from Big Wind Kite factory, a fully kitted, fabric lined wicker picnic hamper  and a collapsible Thule transport organizer and we’re good to go!

There’s nothing better than a long weekend experience outside with family and friends while enjoying a picnic and outdoor activities in a beautiful setting.  In the Lower Mainland a long weekend is the perfect opportunity to venture away from your usual spots nearby and head out to Bowen Island, locations on the North Shore and towards Whistler, or the suburbs and the Fraser Valley. If you don’t have access to a car and don’t belong to a car sharing programme, there are still plenty of locations that are accessible using transit.

In Pitt Meadows, Pitt Lake is an example of a stunning setting that includes the second largest lake in British Columbia and an ecological reserve.  As you make a sharp right turn just before the final stretch of road near the lake, stop at the metal fence on the left, go for a walk along the lake and feel like you are miles away from the city.  A visit to this location does require a car, so transit users might want to arrange a car pool. As a nice finish to your day out, why not stop at the West Coast Grill at Swan-e-Set Resort and Golf Club for a meal.  Reservations are not usually required; however, you might want to call ahead if you are a large group of diners.  They have high chairs and booster seats available and children three and under eat for free. Reservations are required, though, for the Pasta Nights on Friday.

If you happen to be downtown and want to extend your day out, head on over to St. John’s College at UBC by bus or car.  Park along the road by the entrance to the (clothing optional) Wreck Beach stairs and enjoy one of the best places to see expansive sunsets fill the sky. If the clothing optional scene isn’t to your taste, try visiting in September when the beach is quiet. By late evening the beach is pretty much empty and  the sunsets are spectacular.

What is your favourite gear for a day outside?  Where do you like to have a picnic or enjoy the outdoors where you live? We’d love to hear from you so don’t be shy! You can comment about this posting using the comment function below or visit us at our Facebook page.

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When it comes to transporting your child or children around town in a stroller, taking public transit can be challenging at times.  Crowded buses, insensitive fellow passengers, and inclement weather are just a few of the challenges that a parent or caregiver face.  It can also be hard to know if double strollers are allowed on buses or if you will sometimes be asked to collapse your stroller en route.

Knowing your rights as a transit user and having a plan for your trip can help to make your trip run smoothly.

Here is information that is provided by Translink regarding the use of strollers on public transit in the Lower Mainland.  As you read the latest regulations,  consider this bus notification from 1977 describing the “look of anguish” that your mothers might have encountered on a bus driver’s face in the event that she tried to bring a stroller on the bus!

“Use of the front area of the SkyTrain, SeaBus and buses:

  • Seating areas nearest the doors on SkyTrain, SeaBus and buses are designed for people with disabilities and for seniors.
  • Seats at the front of buses – trolleys, 40’ conventional and 60’ articulated coaches – can flip up to accommodate people with mobility devices. Please vacate these seats immediately and help make room for them.
  • Strollers may use this area; however, when demand dictates, the stroller must give way to people with mobility devices, including walkers. Children in strollers should be removed and the strollers collapsed.
  • For safety reasons, the maximum size for a stroller is 122 centimetres (48”) long by 60 centimetres (24”) wide. Strollers must be collapsible.”

Explanation of priority given to passengers on transit (2008):

“First, really large strollers can’t be taken on the bus. The maximum stroller size we allow is 122 centimetres (48 inches) long by 60 centimetres (24 inches) wide.

Second, be prepared to fold your stroller if someone more in need requires a front seat. We in fact have a priority rating for the front bus area: those in wheelchairs and scooters are entitled to seating in the front of the bus first, followed by seniors and those with disabilities, and then children in strollers. We try our best to accommodate strollers, but the seating  priorities are made to ensure many can travel safely and easily. [Further explanation is given as to why seniors and people with disabilities need to sit at the front of the bus.”

Use of elevators:

“We would, however, like to remind cyclists and parents with strollers that elevators in SkyTrain stations are primarily for the use of people using wheelchairs, scooters or other mobility devices.  Thank you for giving these people priority on the elevators.”

Policy regarding boarding the bus and dismantling or moving the stroller:

“This is a reminder that Coast Mountain Bus Company no longer requires that children be removed from strollers while traveling on buses. Transit Operators do expect, however, that the stroller will be kept under control at all times during the trip. The Motor Vehicles Act of B.C.. doors and aisles will not be blocked to the extent that the movement of other passengers is impeded. If any of these problems occur, the operator may ask that you move or fold up the stroller. The ideal place on a bus for a stroller is in the area normally designated for wheelchair, or in front of the courtesy seats. If a wheelchair passenger boards, however. he/she has the priority in this area and you will be expected to move.”

Here are some other considerations that will affect your journey.

Which mode should you take – bus, SeaBus or Skytrain?

The main consideration affecting whether you get on the Skytrain or SeaBus is available space. During rush hour it can be difficult to get your stroller onto the Skytrain, for example, as there is little room for movement inside the car.  This is always a concern for parents who are taking their children to and from daycare. Additionally you might enter on one side, but need to disembark on the other side.  For this reason, the more compact your stroller is the better.  You can also expect to encounter different types of Skytrain cars.  On the Mark 1 cars the seats by the door flip up creating an area for strollers.  On the Mark 2 cars there is a barrier that makes it necessary to place a stroller in front of the doorway.

Some buses are easier to enter with a stroller than others . The small commuter buses in Yaletown can only take an uncollapsed stroller if the driver drops the ramp at the back of the bus.  This can be a slow and cumbersome option.  The most spacious buses for strollers are the B-line buses.  However B-line buses are popular with students and people going to work.  Parents taking their children to and from daycare will need to be patient when taking these routes during rush hour.

So far the Skytrain also seems to be more reliable in terms of strikes.  It was the buses that were unavailable for four months nine years ago.

Do you have to collapse your stroller before entering the bus?

Passengers are not required to collapse their stroller if it is 60 centimetres/24 inches in width or narrower.  Once the stroller is on on the bus, if the bus driver determines that it is required he or she could ask the passenger to collapse the stroller.  Bus drivers seem to have a method to avoid this option.  They have been known, for example, to ask a passenger to collapse a stroller before getting on the bus if the bus is crowded.  Bus drivers have also asked passengers to wait for the next bus as there is already a stroller or wheel chair on the bus, or the bus is too crowded.  The word on the street is that some bus drivers are reluctant to allow double strollers on buses and have either refused to let the stroller on board or have asked the parent or care giver to collapse the stroller.  As you can imagine, this is not a viable option if you have small twin babies, for example.  Keep in mind that technically a double stroller is a good deal wider than the maximum size allowed.

Who has priority to use the front area of the bus?

Priority is given to people in wheelchairs, the elderly and parents with strollers in that order. (As mentioned above, this priority hierarchy is also considered appropriate for the use of elevators.)

What is the best type of stroller to take on public transit?

Single Strollers

There are more options available if you are using a single stroller.  You could choose anything an umbrella stroller, a lightweight option or a full feature, full size single stroller.  Keep in mind that umbrella strollers are not appropriate for younger babies and leave a child less protected to the elements and the surrounding crowds.  On the plus side, they are easier to collapse.  Full size strollers come in a variety of sizes and styles. Lightweight strollers have some of the features of a full size stroller but are lighter and more compact in style.  The UPPABaby G-lite stroller (shown above), with five point harness, light frame and additional rain cover, looks promising.   Keep in mind that three point harnesses should not be used with children younger than six months.  Smaller children or children with weaker upper body control might need to be older than six months before they can use a three point harness.

Double Strollers

If you need to use a double stroller for twins or two young children who are close in age, the choices are more limited.  Most full size, side-by-side double strollers hover at the 30 inch width mark or wider.  Even the lightweight side by side strollers are, inevitably, wider than the 60 centimetres/24 inches allowed.

Tandem strollers such as the Kolcraft Contours Options Tandem Plus look promising as they fit – give or take an inch – within the allowed dimensions.  Although tandem strollers are less desired by some parents and care givers  because it can be more difficult to maneuver a longer stroller rather than a side-by-side that is wider and shallower.

How can I make the long ride on transit easier?

-  It is always a good idea to keep your bus pass in a larger pass holder and in the same, easily accessed location in your bag. If you are using change, collect the exact fare before the bus arrives.

- Bus rides can be noisy and slow.  Do you have quiet, special toys that your child loves to use?  Why not save them for use when you are using public transit?  Some children respond well to looking at books with a parent on a bus ride.These items can be a welcome distraction.

- Simple snacks in easily carried containers are also a good idea.  Snacks that spill or leave a trail of crumbs are less ideal.  Drinks – even sippy cups – should be stored in plastic zip lock bags in case they spill.

- Carry a minimum of supplies in a well designed bag that fits across the back (in a back pack) or in a bag in the basket below the stroller.  In the event that you have to collapse the stroller, you do not want to be trying to cope with too many pieces of articles.

- Keep your cell phone charged and call the phone number on the bus sign for information about bus times.

-  Arrive five minutes before the bus is scheduled to arrive.

- Fashionable diaper bags look good draped over stroller handles, but are less efficient for public transit as it is important to keep your load as light as possible.

- If you are using a lightweight stroller, the canopy provided will not be sufficient to shield your child completely from the sun. You will want a good hat and sunscreen on hand.  Rain covers are available for the lightest strollers and are a good idea.

- Wear a well designed rain slicker and lined rain boots on rainy days.  Umbrellas are hard to handle when pushing a stroller and there is nothing worse than traveling long distances on public transit when your feet are cold and wet. It is also advisable to dress your child in zip up layers so that you can easily cool them off on crowded, hot buses during the rainy season.

- A full size or lightweight stroller that reclines is ideal so that your child can sleep easier.

- Greet the bus driver with a friendly smile and “hello” even if your trip is not progressing very well.

What should you do if you have a concern about how your trip progressed on public transit.

If your discussion with the driver does not yield satisfying results, record the bus number (which is inside the bus near the front doors, and in a few locations outside the bus), time, and date of your trip.  Send an E-mail to the TransLink office using the form on TransLink’s website.  Your concern will be redirected to the appropriate person/division.)

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The Strollers Without Fuss on the Bus brochure was created by parents for use on the Montreal public transit system.  Some of the information is different from what you will encounter in the Lower Mainland. For example Lower Mainland buses do not have picto-grams indicating that strollers have priority on the buses.  The brochure is, however, an interesting overview for parents and care givers who are using public transit.

The Green City Action Plan outlines the City of Vancouver’s plans to be the greenest city by 2020.  Greater use of public transit is a core feature of this plan.  Your use of public transit supports these initiatives in a significant way and helps to create a healthier world for you child’s current life and future years.

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What do you think of this topic?  We’d love to hear from you and invite you to use the comment function available below.

The next time you are flying by way of the Vancouver International Airport take the opportunity to appreciate the numerous art pieces spread throughout the airport.  Most are there for display purposes, some pieces are very large and many pieces are for sale. Inuit and First Nations’ (Northwest Coast) art pieces are included along with contemporary artwork.

Here is a photo of an amusing piece that is in one of the departure lounges. It depicts a man looking at a mocking bird.  Unfortunately information about the artist was not clearly visible.

For more information, a slideshow, a map of locations of the artwork  and videos, check out the YVR  Art Foundation website

If the weather cooperates, the wind dies down and BC Ferries adds enough extra ferries, BCfamily.ca will be going on the road for the Easter weekend and the following week. This means that we will be focusing our efforts on our Facebook page,  “tweeting” and “twitpicing” as we provide updates on what’s happening on Vancouver Island. If you’re interested to learn more about this gorgeous part of the world, please do join us.

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By Pamela Chan

We’re hearing you, Newfoundland and Labrador Tourist Commission. Clearly your province and territory is worth a visit.

If you have children in your life and you’re looking for a memorable adventure, nothing compares to the opportunity to go out into the rugged outdoors, don an Aaron sweater and run like the wind – rain or shine.

Clearly Newfoundland and Labrador is a place for the child in all of us.

On your journey through life, make sure your biography has at least one extraordinary chapter.

In a world oddly bent on conformity, there’s something strangely encouraging about a place that’s anything but.


The traveler sees what he sees. The tourist sees what he has come to see.

To Consider:

Where are the ruggedly beautiful corners of your part of the world?  Are some nearby? Do others require some planning and effort to visit?

Where are the national parks with broad open spaces and water features?

When considering places to visit think more about the opportunity to simply enjoy the surroundings and less about what you can “do” when you get there.

To Do:

* When was the last time you packed a picnic lunch and visited a National Park? (See also BC Parks)

* Don’t wait for the perfect sunny day.  A warm sweater and Gortex will help when the weather fails you.  Dress  appropriately for the outdoors. In British Columbia this means ensuring that you are both warm and dry.

* Be safe.  Know your limitations. If you are going for a hike be prepared with the right gear (including food).

* Check the weather before you go.  You’ll want to know if a snow storm is expected on a sunny winter day.

* Travel green. Take out everything that you bring in.

Island Home – Newfoundland and Labrador

Newfoundland and Labrador

Where is this place exactly? It’s about as far from Disney Land as you can possibly get.

Around every corner – around every turn – you are reminded that around here not every work of art hangs on a wall.

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